Other than that, I ABSOLUTELY agree that rape/ assault has been normalised here and it drives me crazy but the initial intention of using the word grape instead of rape (again principally/ originally I mean on other platforms) is also valid and a way to talk about it so I think it shouldn’t be mixed up here.
There's not really a reason to use it on here though. No one's comments are getting deleted for using the word rape. I get using grape on social media platforms that might delete them but people are starting to just say grape all the time instead of rape. Even in person. It's an uncomfortable word to use but necessary. (Not trying to argue just stating why I think we shouldn't use grape/rape interchangeably unless absolutely necessary)
I should have clarified instead of just saying "stop using grape" in my original comment, my bad. Hopefully people understand my point now
Yes yes, agreed. Also maybe some just don’t know we don’t really get censored here and that there is no real need to use the word grape instead of rape. But yeah now I get your point, there is no use for it HERE ONLY.
Some of y'all really need a reality check. Stop using grape. Its rape. Just say the word there is no need to censor it. And saying you don't hate rapists is mad weird. Idk what's going on but the amount of rape defenders under BL's is really concerning. Just bc its fictional does not been its not a heavy topic and should be romanticized or downplayed... Idk it seems pretty crazy how much assualt/rape has been normalized in BL