"nevermind, I'll choose to sit here with you Juwon", right?

Not necessarily? Like you're allowed to have fun with your family etc if you came all the way. If he gets ignored all the time then that sucks but if they have fun and then come talk to him afterwards/periodically then that's fine. Otherwise they could have just all stayed home. Juwon is an adult who could have stayed home, played a bit in the sun and judge when to rest, bring a book, etc.