I feel but also at some point you gotta stand up like trying to get yourself pregnant to keep a man is insane and ignoring long term friends for some dick is also not a way to earn my sympathy. She is young and naive but gosh I hope she wakes up soon before she ruins her life
She's not only young and naive but extremely spoiled and coddled by her family. In the earlier chapters, Ari mentioned how her apartment was gifted by her parents. It'a a fancy one too, not a small run down one. Means she is from a fairly well off family.
Righttt, she’s 27 years old. Plus remember how she even told mincheol that they could crash her car so her dad could buy her a new one, cause he adores her
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I have symphathy for her because It is sad to see a person being sucked alive by their partner and I have seen countless of women like her and it is depressing. She has a fixer mentality. But.. If by any chance she confronts Haesoo, calls her names and brings her down just because she believes all the lies Mincheol told her. At that moment, zero symphathy.
That's why I have sympathy for her.. She's being lied to.. And sure she's "dumb" and naive, that's why I feel bad bc Mincarrot is lowk taking advantage of that
Vro she loves him.. People get stupid when they're inlove.. Gurl is tryna babytrap him.. Yes she needs to wake up cuz carrot hoe is js lying and using her.. But I'm just saying that in her perspective, her friend was just giving advice w/o knowing mincarrot.. Like for Ari, Mincarrot is not a bad guy cuz again SHES BEING LIED TOOO.. So like we gyatta understand that she's lowk a victim of manipulation or smth
But like morals??? Why is your first thought baby trapping that’s a weird thought in here and both irl like what???? Also at 27?!? I didn’t realize I thought she was younger, at her big age acting like this is insane.... Like I get being spoiled but you can be spoiled and not be stupid. Like yes Mincheol is a terrible person but she’s also gotta take accountability(I mean by her weird actions which her friend pointed out, LISTENING to others who care for you, and following your gut) , she has a gut feeling and is ignoring it. plus from the two times we’ve seen her friend she must talk about him often to her friend….she was just mad her friend told the truth not because it was unsolicited advice. Yall make some good points but at some point she’s needs to let go, it’s not like their relationship is anything like with the FL either (tho that was also painful but we’ve seen how their relationship turned over time so yea
Sorry I replied to yours but that was like for the whole thread I came back to see a lot of people commented!!
I'm not disagreeing with you.. But like, first of all this story is written by a man, it's not that surprising that a woman may or may not act spoiled and stupid in this story.. She's a stereotyped character.. And Ik the whole thought of baby trapping is crazy.. But in reality, SOME PEOPLE ACTUALLY DO THAT.. Surprise :p.. Morals you say.. That's CLEARLY what she lacks.. Yes you can be spoiled but not stupid but let's be fr.. MOST spoiled ppl are stupid in terms of alot of stuff.. And it's also a stereotype in fiction that they are immature and dumb.. In short, I was just saying I lowk pity her.. Doesn't mean I like her or support her relationship with Mincarrot..they should totally break up.. Cuz again only Ari gets hurt
Can i just say that Ari is actually pretty but I still don't like her that much. I lowk feel bad for her bc she's just another victim of that orange carrot. I understand how she was feeling when a friend was giving her advice but she shouldn't have left that friend dawg. I really hope she won't get pregnant bc carrot hoe is NOTTT gonna stay