I feel like the police wouldn't do shot because it seems in the vid that the uke was willingly having sex with the blond, and he could just say the uke did know about it and i don't see how they could prove any of it wasn't consensual. I mean i could be wrong, I'd like to think I would be, but I can't
Basically you can consent to sex and not consent to be filmed and to not only record it but also send it around is revenge porn and that’s a crime by itself too so 2 crimes we’re committed. The illegal filming of a sexual relation and the illegal distribution of said illegal filming. Most police officers do brush this off as a civil matter but as long as you frame it legally rather than “my ex sent my new bf videos of us together!! Help!!”, it should be fine.
But let this be a lesson to everyone to always always remember to stay safe and if you want to take vids or pics and it’s of your partner, get written consent from them and if it’s of you, give written consent and include some clause to the effect of “if this video/photo is distributed in ANY way or in any manner, you acknowledge that you committed a revenge porn crime.” It may sound really strange and silly to get a legally binding document from your lover but this protects both of you from having revenge porn out in the world but also from being accused of illegally recording your partner. Even better if you can get your partner to delete all of the pics/vids before you officially leave them for good. Stay safe and stay sexy!
Is that right? well i,m glad to hear that there would be something going to the police would do, but that would be the sensible thing to do, but since when is bl sensible? Very rarely. And yes we should all be careful of video taken because the internet will pass it around forever. Thanks for explaining the first part.
Yeah yaoi is infamous for ignoring logic and pretending the police don’t exist unfortunately ╥﹏╥
So he sent you elicit photos of someone else… and you have that person with you… and neither of you are going to the police and saying that that person took pornography of you that you didn’t consent to and is distributing it to those around you in an effort to stalk and harass you? But you have evidence on your bfs phone… YEAH MAKES TOTAL SENSE!!