Okay so I have experienced the point of view of the person that ghosted someone for 7 years and though my situation was different from Eunhyuk's and I did it to my best friend, I can tell you that there really never is a reason big enough to disappear like that for so long. You can always reach out to at least say "hey, I'm fine but I think it's better if we have a proper closure", but unfortunately a lot of us are cowards. Like unless he was kidnapped or some crazy shit which obviously didn't happen, I don't think anything could justify leaving your girlfriend just like that. I'm not saying if I think suae should forgive him or not or if I think she should go to Dohwa because that will only end up as a shipping war, all I wanna say is Suae deserved a closure and there's absolutely no reason for Eunhyuk to not have said goodbye to her
Okay so I have experienced the point of view of the person that ghosted someone for 7 years and though my situation was different from Eunhyuk's and I did it to my best friend, I can tell you that there really never is a reason big enough to disappear like that for so long. You can always reach out to at least say "hey, I'm fine but I think it's better if we have a proper closure", but unfortunately a lot of us are cowards. Like unless he was kidnapped or some crazy shit which obviously didn't happen, I don't think anything could justify leaving your girlfriend just like that. I'm not saying if I think suae should forgive him or not or if I think she should go to Dohwa because that will only end up as a shipping war, all I wanna say is Suae deserved a closure and there's absolutely no reason for Eunhyuk to not have said goodbye to her