Guys if anyone is in this situation where someone threatens to hurt themselves if you leave call the cops and tell them they’ll send someone over to handle it
Absolutely! Anyone who threatens this as a form of control needs to be gotten away from asap and if you call the cops (if you're us/most of Europe at least) they now have a written record/consequence so it lessens their habit of using it freely as control, or it gets them help. Win win.
Guys if anyone is in this situation where someone threatens to hurt themselves if you leave call the cops and tell them they’ll send someone over to handle it