That position actually hurts me.... idk how that helps lolol

Exactly, doggy is rly fucking painful and does not help w ‘loosening up’. I actually tore once too

I tore so many times and bled so bad too! It's a position I don't recommend too often.

it usually does bc it hits directly the cervix which hurts like a bitch if you are not insanely horny, most women never get to be ready enough for that too, like physically their body cant take it, so dw it's normal, i can rarely do it in that position, also doing it in a doggy as a first position must be painful as shit, idk why they always describe it as super nice and pleasurable

Yep, only when you’re insanely horny. Definitely not when you need to loosen up your partner. Missionary is the best way to get used to the length imo!