Asking out of curiosity

Qwertyer September 1, 2025 12:03 am

When you're reading bl/yaoi who do you often find the most attractive, the denominated bottom or the top in the relationship?

I know there's so much variety and this question feels reductive but they are are generally characterized using the same tropes / features and personally types. So there's some resemblance between them all


I keep seeing people simp for tops but generally it's the bottoms I find attractive in looks and personality .

Responses
    sseraph_ September 1, 2025 2:31 am

    i usually ike bottoms more tbh. In irl i end up liking or dating people who look similar like feminine features or smaller statures. I think also personality wise its the same since they are more soft and sympathetic. But this might js be bc theres a lot of bls where the tops are trash.