Jiwon is so anxious about everything (as we know,) and while he's saying some wild stuff to his boyfriend, at least he's being honest about his fears. Jungwoo is great but he's being really controlling and passive-aggressive IMO. His desire to tell people about their relationship is at the root of all of his irritations, but instead of discussing it for real he's just being kind of a dick.
He's suspicious of every person Jiwon interacts with, which is common in BL but IRL is such a red flag. Jiwon hasn't given him any reason not to trust him, and if anything Jiwon has way more cause to be jealous with how people throw themselves at Jungwoo. Making him feel like he's doing something wrong by hanging out with his friends - even when it's for classwork! - is fucked up. And Jiwon knows that in the past Jungwoo has hated clingy partners so he's trying to stay a little distant, whereas Jungwoo actually wants him to be clingy af. But of course neither knows what the other is really thinking. And yeah I get that it can be hard when your partner has low self-esteem, but he could try reassuring his boyfriend who has a KNOWN ANXIETY DISORDER instead of getting mad that he's, ya know, anxious. If he's worried about Jungwoo breaking up with him, clearly he DOESN'T want to break up. He's not fixated on it because he wants to be, but because he's afraid of losing Jungwoo over one wrong move.
Jiwon is so anxious about everything (as we know,) and while he's saying some wild stuff to his boyfriend, at least he's being honest about his fears. Jungwoo is great but he's being really controlling and passive-aggressive IMO. His desire to tell people about their relationship is at the root of all of his irritations, but instead of discussing it for real he's just being kind of a dick.
He's suspicious of every person Jiwon interacts with, which is common in BL but IRL is such a red flag. Jiwon hasn't given him any reason not to trust him, and if anything Jiwon has way more cause to be jealous with how people throw themselves at Jungwoo. Making him feel like he's doing something wrong by hanging out with his friends - even when it's for classwork! - is fucked up. And Jiwon knows that in the past Jungwoo has hated clingy partners so he's trying to stay a little distant, whereas Jungwoo actually wants him to be clingy af. But of course neither knows what the other is really thinking. And yeah I get that it can be hard when your partner has low self-esteem, but he could try reassuring his boyfriend who has a KNOWN ANXIETY DISORDER instead of getting mad that he's, ya know, anxious. If he's worried about Jungwoo breaking up with him, clearly he DOESN'T want to break up. He's not fixated on it because he wants to be, but because he's afraid of losing Jungwoo over one wrong move.