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its totally some kind of ownership thing LOL. you're def right, it's partly an exhibitionist kink but you also mentioned possessive tops... possessive tops want to show the world who belongs to them so i guess that means having sex in front of people??? "his butt is mine and only mine" or whatever...
In almost every BL, the top likes fucking the bottom while someone is watching. Or doesn’t gaf. Even if they’re incredibly possessive and wouldn’t want their lover flirting, cheating, someone else liking them, etc. Which kinda makes no sense bc how can some of them be so jealous and not want some other person liking their partner but also enjoy doing the boombayah with a crowd of people watching Anyways, I find it very interesting that almost all of them have some sort of exhibitionist kink