
well i think it's fair to say BOTH Ian and TJ are "that kind of person". It's a trauma bonding situation. I find it kind of unfair when TJ stans put all the blame on Ian. even if u were on Jo's side that makes sense cause BL readers often tend to hate more on the bottom than the tops. Just like in straight stories where readers hate the female lead over the male even if the male lead is more problematic. This even happens irl. The stigma needs to stop fr

I like Jo enough to don't want him and Ian to be final game. I know TJ is like that, but i dont know if you forgot but a few chapters before He sold the house where they were going to live together in the future he imagined because he already saw that he wouldn't be chosen, Ian was going to stay with Jo. I dont hate anyone in this story. But the author is making Ian the kind of character that i don't like. Just my opinion. Don't get so hurt with fictional characters, ok? ^-^

In my opinion Ian is not that type of person. I don't think his feelings for TJ are as strong as before. A few chapters back he was thinking about Jo and how he is not deserving of someone like Jo.He think TJ is what he deserves so might as well take a chance to test the water if they can both start at the beginning again whether they it'll be romantic or platonic later on. And when Jo is back in the picture. Things will be even more different. Ian just need to realize that even if he thinks he doesn't deserve Jo that Jo love him either way. Again I can see why people say Jo deserve better but if I was a Jo Stan. I rather him win the man than losing. And let stop making it sound like Ian is the only one to blame.

Okay first of all i'm not "getting hurt with fictional characters" this is a public comment section so obviously there is gonna be conversation and argument dawg. And no i didn't forget that thing about TJ and the house but i think your lacking understanding about their dynamic here. Part of Ian's cons about TJ is that he does all these grand gestures of love and keeps coming back to him but he never communicates it. TJ glazers hating on Ian for "making" TJ sell that house when Ian didn't even know about it in the first place is wild. There is no point if you don't communicate to the person u love what u do for them. All Ian sees is a guy that choses the gang over him and that's all TJ lets him see besides the begging so i don't blame Ian at all. TJ needs to leave him alone fr

"This person here" is not blaming Ian. You say you understand the story so well, but you don't know how to interpret my comment. My opinion is valid until this chapter, it might change in the next chapter, and whether you think it's wrong or not is entirely your problem. Everyone interprets any kind of work in their own way because that's how it works, it's open to anyone's interpretation. I'm just expressing my opinion that I'm not happy with the way the story is going, and you don't have to be upset about that. You really need to understand the difference between hate and opinion.
Ian is that kind of person who can date many different types of people but still goes back to his ex if his ex wants him back. He's like TJ just said the word and i am all yours