i dont think its odd, bc he clearly is attached to TJ and wishes he'd be prioritized. but i wonder if he really thinks TJ will accept, or if he's just waiting for a confirmation of disappointment.
he is testing tj and giving them one last chance but i doubt tj would leave with him
You are both probably right but it's really frustrating to see him still giving a chance/hope for their relationship.
And after TJ refuses, is Ian really gonna gjve up for real and move on ? At this point it's difficult to believe that Ian would ever move on from TJ. (Unless TJ decide to stay away on his own)
It's actually odd of Ian to even suggest this. TJ has made it clear that the gang takes priority over Ian and by a long shot.
I mean... did TJ ever consider to leave the gang for Ian ? I cant remember