I don't think Ian saying this come from a place where it is like " I love you and I want to start over" or "I pick Clarke!" But it's more like he is testing TJ. He doesn't believe that he deserves Jo love so Jo isn't a second option or is an option because Ian has always think that he isn't worth that love. Which make me believe that they'll be endgame even more because Jo love him so it doesn't matter what Ian think he, himself deserves. TJ is a coward. He is prideful. He is selfish.He immediately guilt trip and gaslight Ian after Ian asking him to leave it all behind. Ian still feel guilty because he thinks it's his fault that TJ is in th gang. But when in actuality it's is TJ own decisions. Ian is testing and giving TJ a chance to leave it all behind and also getting the last confirmation from him about where their relationship stand And see it as the only option in keeping all of them safe (Jo,TJ). Ian will still help TJ with the gang situation but I no longer believe that his feelings for TJ is the same. They still have a bond that why Ian will help him despite TJ answer. And let's be honest, We never seen him showed any signs of wanting to leave the gang. He never understand what Ian wants or see a life with Ian outside of the gang. He build that house without Ian knowing. He ghosted Ian after the funeral to let him go. Is that not him picking the gang over Ian? One last chance. A chance he doesn't even deserve. Will he mess it up or will he be able to change which I highly doubt lmaoo.
Don't forget that he even blew the opportunity after Ian did decided to go with him but instead ghosted Ian after finally getting answer from Ian. It like he has no que at all and only decides from his interest only.
I don't think Ian saying this come from a place where it is like " I love you and I want to start over" or "I pick Clarke!" But it's more like he is testing TJ. He doesn't believe that he deserves Jo love so Jo isn't a second option or is an option because Ian has always think that he isn't worth that love. Which make me believe that they'll be endgame even more because Jo love him so it doesn't matter what Ian think he, himself deserves.
TJ is a coward. He is prideful. He is selfish.He immediately guilt trip and gaslight Ian after Ian asking him to leave it all behind. Ian still feel guilty because he thinks it's his fault that TJ is in th gang. But when in actuality it's is TJ own decisions. Ian is testing and giving TJ a chance to leave it all behind and also getting the last confirmation from him about where their relationship stand And see it as the only option in keeping all of them safe (Jo,TJ). Ian will still help TJ with the gang situation but I no longer believe that his feelings for TJ is the same. They still have a bond that why Ian will help him despite TJ answer. And let's be honest, We never seen him showed any signs of wanting to leave the gang. He never understand what Ian wants or see a life with Ian outside of the gang. He build that house without Ian knowing. He ghosted Ian after the funeral to let him go. Is that not him picking the gang over Ian?
One last chance. A chance he doesn't even deserve. Will he mess it up or will he be able to change which I highly doubt lmaoo.