TW :Incoming Rant!!!

Maybe I'm sensitive. I keep on seeing people on Tik tok. On here hating on Yw. And I can't help but feel like crying? Actually, I am crying. He has been through so much as well. Seeing him speaking out about what he wants for the very first time to his closeted lover who has been somewhat an abusive partner to him. Never giving a label to what their relationship is. Seeing so many people truly believing that he doesn't deserve anyone and that he is the only problem. Making it seem he is intentionally trying to get with both TJ and Jo. He finally speak out once and he is being called selfish. TJ has selfishly hurt Ian. He ruined Ian career. He broke Ian leg. He put Ian in prison. He put him in debt and made him sell drugs... People are only sympathizing with the two tops for some reason especially TJ. I see people invalidating Ian trauma and the thing he went through with TJ. Belittle and degrade him to a slut because he sleep around but in the same breath they are fine with TJ sleeping with other women. They feel pity and angry for the top only like why is that? Ian deserve to be love as well. It's so upsetting seeing him go through so much as well but receive so much hate with people spinning the narrative to make the two top ( well more like TJ) as the victim. I can see why people love Jo and feel angry for him not just because of his looks only but I just can't understand the people who truly believe that TJ deserve better (he deserves to be happy but saying he deserves better in regard to Ian is not it.)because I can't see any other reason besides the fact you like the way he look and you think he is this dude who is willing to give up everything for Ian but in reality Ian given up more for TJ has ever did for Ian. Seeing Yw believing that he isn't worthy of any love or being able to love normally and people just gloss over how he feels. Would it help if a top were to show these feeling? People would be in the comments section talking about how they feel for the top,no? Majority of the TJ solo Stan are like this. They do not want Ian and TJ together. They want TJ for themselves....ATP I don't even want to root for anyone because most of the people here believe that Ian doesn't deserve the two top anyways. If he ends up with TJ he will still gets hate. If he end up with Jo he will still gets hate from both sides because not only the TJ stan will tweak out but the Jo Stan already think Jo deserves better. I just want him to be able to have normal life at this point. No need for there is to be any endgame. Just make Jo and TJ be together so Ian can get a break from all this unwarranted hate.