also icl i have no idea how anyone thinks minwoo is a good friend. if you are so scared of your friends reaction that you have to lie to them, you're scared to even have another person near them or touching you because of how they will react, thats crazy and borderline abusive. he cant use a past experience as an excuse to be controlling, obsessive and borderline manipulative. he is extremely controlling, he cant even let the mc have friends on his own let alone a potential bf (not saying ml is the ideal choice here but still), the one day he was out the guy came to mc's house and monitored him all day and night even him going to the toilet?? people trying to convince themselves this is a healthy dynamic??? and the fact there are romantic intentions behind it makes it even worse because its not he truly worries for the mc and wants only whats best for him and for him to be happy, he just wants him only by HIS side and his side only. that is very creepy and the fact that mc keeps going on about how he finally has 'freedom' is probably because this minwoo guy never allowed him to do anything freely using the excuse of 'worry'. look he may get a redemption arc i dont know but honestly his behaviour was absolutely crazy, zero excuses, trauma or no trauma.
also icl i have no idea how anyone thinks minwoo is a good friend. if you are so scared of your friends reaction that you have to lie to them, you're scared to even have another person near them or touching you because of how they will react, thats crazy and borderline abusive. he cant use a past experience as an excuse to be controlling, obsessive and borderline manipulative. he is extremely controlling, he cant even let the mc have friends on his own let alone a potential bf (not saying ml is the ideal choice here but still), the one day he was out the guy came to mc's house and monitored him all day and night even him going to the toilet?? people trying to convince themselves this is a healthy dynamic??? and the fact there are romantic intentions behind it makes it even worse because its not he truly worries for the mc and wants only whats best for him and for him to be happy, he just wants him only by HIS side and his side only. that is very creepy and the fact that mc keeps going on about how he finally has 'freedom' is probably because this minwoo guy never allowed him to do anything freely using the excuse of 'worry'. look he may get a redemption arc i dont know but honestly his behaviour was absolutely crazy, zero excuses, trauma or no trauma.