Wtf is this?

The violence the uke inflicts on the seme....it's not romantic or cute. Wtf!!? It's horrible. So the uke understands that the seme is broken inside, has a lot of abandonment issues and low self esteem and he takes on everything, even the betrayals of other people without complaint and yet uke's solution to everything is unrelenting violence? Tf? Uke decides that seme should be arrogant and nasty with everyone else but himself? He wants to empower him and give him confidence and yet beats his ass for trivial reasons? So he gets angry over stupid unsubstantiated things and that justifies the beating he gives the seme and the seme takes it? The hell is wrong with you writer??? I hope seme dumps his jerk ass. On the verge of dropping this shit.