On one hand, I get it. The father had a massively traumatic experience with the one person he trusted more than anyone. But it’s wild that he’s telling everyone to throw away their emotions when he sealed his away while being emotionally impulsive. Also, how are you going to keep asking why she decided to come there when she said upfront that it was to find her dad and just survive. For someone who claims to not let his emotions drive him. . . . .he is actively harassing and hurting her due to being emotionally triggered from his past with her mom. Trauma is complicated and we can’t force ourselves to follow an exact protocol when unexpected events happen. But it’s still frustrating knowing that grown adults find it ok to actively partake in harming kids due to circumstances that the kid had no control over. (╯°Д °)╯╧╧
On one hand, I get it. The father had a massively traumatic experience with the one person he trusted more than anyone. But it’s wild that he’s telling everyone to throw away their emotions when he sealed his away while being emotionally impulsive. Also, how are you going to keep asking why she decided to come there when she said upfront that it was to find her dad and just survive. For someone who claims to not let his emotions drive him. . . . .he is actively harassing and hurting her due to being emotionally triggered from his past with her mom. Trauma is complicated and we can’t force ourselves to follow an exact protocol when unexpected events happen. But it’s still frustrating knowing that grown adults find it ok to actively partake in harming kids due to circumstances that the kid had no control over. (╯°Д °)╯╧╧