I wish the ex husband ends up either: 1) alone 2) learn his mistake and be a better guy and who knows find someone that he treats better 3) he ends up with the girl he 's been using and get trapped in a loveless marriage that he can't simply shake off because of kids, learn to love and mature.
I just want the guy move on, have a proper closure that gets him to stay away from mc's life for good. And well realizes his mistakes.
As for his lover... she can be considered a victim until a certain point. She is being used but she's also in a way complicit in being used because she's in denial and delusional. She's no kid. She'll have to learn that "Blind love" is no good. She's an adult that had seen first hand how much of a red flag the ex husband is. She ignores people telling her that the guy is no good either. And mentally deluded herself that the guy not using a condom is him saying he wants to marries her and almost attempted to baby trap the guy. *listen, I hate the ex husband but, baby trapping would be horrible to all the party involved and most importantly for the innocent kid.*
I don't hate her btw but, just saying for her own good she needs to wake up from her "he loves me for real. Even left his wife for me." and "I need to make him happy or else he'll leave me. It's ok, I'm sure he'll return kind and loving after so I'll forgive him" mindset. + in all honesty if she did succed in getting pregnant and marry the guy, she'll end up just like the heroine but worst, no love in the marriage and a kid, who has nothing to do with these guys toxicity, taking the biggest and long term consequences.
Plus as a woman myself, I do not wish any woman end up with a toxic husband / boyfriends
I wish the ex husband ends up either: 1) alone 2) learn his mistake and be a better guy and who knows find someone that he treats better 3) he ends up with the girl he 's been using and get trapped in a loveless marriage that he can't simply shake off because of kids, learn to love and mature.
I just want the guy move on, have a proper closure that gets him to stay away from mc's life for good. And well realizes his mistakes.
As for his lover... she can be considered a victim until a certain point. She is being used but she's also in a way complicit in being used because she's in denial and delusional. She's no kid. She'll have to learn that "Blind love" is no good. She's an adult that had seen first hand how much of a red flag the ex husband is. She ignores people telling her that the guy is no good either. And mentally deluded herself that the guy not using a condom is him saying he wants to marries her and almost attempted to baby trap the guy. *listen, I hate the ex husband but, baby trapping would be horrible to all the party involved and most importantly for the innocent kid.*
I don't hate her btw but, just saying for her own good she needs to wake up from her "he loves me for real. Even left his wife for me." and "I need to make him happy or else he'll leave me. It's ok, I'm sure he'll return kind and loving after so I'll forgive him" mindset. + in all honesty if she did succed in getting pregnant and marry the guy, she'll end up just like the heroine but worst, no love in the marriage and a kid, who has nothing to do with these guys toxicity, taking the biggest and long term consequences.
Plus as a woman myself, I do not wish any woman end up with a toxic husband / boyfriends