It’s still inaccurate to safe and I’d say “humane” breath play but I am glad to see Courtney acknowledge how scary it is being a dom and being in the drivers seat and how easy it is to not only get caught up but end up enjoying it so much you get morbid curiosity out of it. I’m personally a switch but the few times I’ve done a wayyyyyyyyyyyy softer version of breath play on my ex (at his request since we both enjoy it on yourself and doing it to each other), I have experienced the curiosity she’s facing and I know my ex has as well because it does make you jolt back to reality and reflect and it messes you up for a while until you can accept that you will have intense emotions and intrusive thoughts while you play so close to life and death or so intimately with the human bodies upper limits. This is why it’s so important for both sub and dom or maso and sado to have individual safewords to back out at any time. On occasions, my ex has had to safeword while being a dom because he ended up having an intrusive thought and it scared him that he was “capable” of that kind of thought. I do hope they play with proper safety measures going forward but considering this is a newb sado-dom and a maso-sub with a death wish and a LOT of knowledge that he’s withholding from his dom, I don’t have high hopes. It’s a good enough read if you don’t think at all during the BDSM aspects since it’s only half accurate and very unsafe.
It’s still inaccurate to safe and I’d say “humane” breath play but I am glad to see Courtney acknowledge how scary it is being a dom and being in the drivers seat and how easy it is to not only get caught up but end up enjoying it so much you get morbid curiosity out of it. I’m personally a switch but the few times I’ve done a wayyyyyyyyyyyy softer version of breath play on my ex (at his request since we both enjoy it on yourself and doing it to each other), I have experienced the curiosity she’s facing and I know my ex has as well because it does make you jolt back to reality and reflect and it messes you up for a while until you can accept that you will have intense emotions and intrusive thoughts while you play so close to life and death or so intimately with the human bodies upper limits. This is why it’s so important for both sub and dom or maso and sado to have individual safewords to back out at any time. On occasions, my ex has had to safeword while being a dom because he ended up having an intrusive thought and it scared him that he was “capable” of that kind of thought. I do hope they play with proper safety measures going forward but considering this is a newb sado-dom and a maso-sub with a death wish and a LOT of knowledge that he’s withholding from his dom, I don’t have high hopes. It’s a good enough read if you don’t think at all during the BDSM aspects since it’s only half accurate and very unsafe.