yun-oh is acting like such a child but to me his inner conflict is understandable bc its so clear how haewon doesn’t return his feelings (as of right now). he’s coddling him at every turn and it feels a bit patronizing at times… especially since the way they started dating was literally an exasperated “fine, ill do it the way you want just so you stop throwing a tantrum”.
BUT on haewon’s end, he’s clearly been burned by love in the past and thus seems to not have a full grasp on romantic relationships??? so he’s so desperate to cling onto the one person who unconditionally likes him, he’ll do anything to stay by yun-oh’s side. in that way tho, it kinda blinds him to yun-oh’s actual needs. it must be so exhausting though, bending over backwards for a guy who wont open his damn mouth
yun-oh is acting like such a child but to me his inner conflict is understandable bc its so clear how haewon doesn’t return his feelings (as of right now). he’s coddling him at every turn and it feels a bit patronizing at times… especially since the way they started dating was literally an exasperated “fine, ill do it the way you want just so you stop throwing a tantrum”.
BUT on haewon’s end, he’s clearly been burned by love in the past and thus seems to not have a full grasp on romantic relationships??? so he’s so desperate to cling onto the one person who unconditionally likes him, he’ll do anything to stay by yun-oh’s side. in that way tho, it kinda blinds him to yun-oh’s actual needs. it must be so exhausting though, bending over backwards for a guy who wont open his damn mouth
they both need therapy lawl