
im sorry but i have to ask - did you miss like everything else that has happened in andrew's past? the dude literally thought he was being stalked AGAIN and reacted in an extremely valid way - he has apologized for it multiple times, acknowledged his wrong doings and doesnt try to act like it wasnt a big deal. use your brain please.

What does me being uncomfortable with a future partner getting punched in the face until it’s swollen have to do with “using my brain”? Why do I have to empathize with the abuser if I don’t want to? I’ve personally experienced way more trauma than this top or your average person. I’m not about to be a school shooter, and I’m never going to lay hands on anyone. Once you’re an adult, it’s your responsibility not to put your hands on anyone. If you’re that mentally unstable, you need professional help (and grippy socks). But once you do harm someone like that, people don’t have to accept your “sorry,” no matter how many times you say it ¯_(ツ)_/¯
I knw I might get hate for this but I have to say it. I wish the top didn't beat the bottom up (refer to chapter 6/7) in the beginning in nerd project.it was not even a slap I can put up with a slap but It's so wrong, especially because the bottom was beat so bad his face was swollen idk if it was meant to be comedy but i wasn't laughing. The top is much bigger and they are supposed to enter a relationship at some point. And ppl call this top a green flag :/