You can totally love someone now and loathe who they used to be at the same time. That’s possible. The opposite can be true too. You can adore who someone once was and hold love for that past version while hating the current version of that person. You don’t have to like someone’s past in order to plan a future with them. As long as it’s something you can personally live with and ignore for the most part, I don’t see why it’s an issue. If you love him, you love him. Nothing complicated about it.
You can totally love someone now and loathe who they used to be at the same time. That’s possible. The opposite can be true too. You can adore who someone once was and hold love for that past version while hating the current version of that person. You don’t have to like someone’s past in order to plan a future with them. As long as it’s something you can personally live with and ignore for the most part, I don’t see why it’s an issue. If you love him, you love him. Nothing complicated about it.