Responses
I'm a Jo girlie, but reason. This argument is more emotional than anything. You're acting like he runs off to strangers and not to a guy he has a toxic connection with. Stds is crazy. How do you view irl people with mental issues from abusive background?
Ian doesn't deserve Jo. All three should cut ties with each other. Ian ran away from Jo and back to Tj how many times now? Three or even four, I don't even remember. This time was the worst - Ian ran away while just leaving a letter with like two words then continued fucking Tj in a dirty public restroom while Jo deals with the fact that he almost killed a stranger for ian... Now I bet in the next chapter Ian is inside that apartment waiting to give Jo some Std's and crime involvements. The problem with Jo is that he's blinded by love and takes Ian back no matter how bad the situation is. This is all too much. Here's my solution:
Jo: cut ties with Ian, find yourself a kind, gentle and loyal partner.
Ian: cut ties with everybody, leave the state, work an honest job, stay single for the next 6 years and focus on your mental health
Tj: will be top of the organization anyways and turns mad because he can't let go of Ian and then gets assassinated at some point - that's the life he already choose for himself. There's no solution for this guy anymore.