what Tj and Jo are willing or not willing to give up

Ian: ‘what else can you give to me?’
Jo: ‘everything’
Versus
Ian: ‘why do you want to continue this gang life? I don’t wanna sit on the sideline and watch you get married and have kids’
Tj: ‘because then I’ll be a nobody. I can knock you out and drag you with me if I wanted to’
There’s a stark difference in the love they’re giving to Ian. I’m still a tj fan but he’s not it for Ian