Honestly bl authors fail to realise bdsm ~can~ be healthy and in a loving relationship, that toxicity and abuse is not mutually exclusive with the dynamic. But this is just rape disguised as “bdsm” with toxic abusive dom bs and naive ml. Although I like the exploration of the ml’s past SA, I hope the author does down the path where they both explore and communicate a healthy kink dynamic, cause it’s something which can be therapeutic to sa survivors
Honestly bl authors fail to realise bdsm ~can~ be healthy and in a loving relationship, that toxicity and abuse is not mutually exclusive with the dynamic. But this is just rape disguised as “bdsm” with toxic abusive dom bs and naive ml. Although I like the exploration of the ml’s past SA, I hope the author does down the path where they both explore and communicate a healthy kink dynamic, cause it’s something which can be therapeutic to sa survivors