Let me just say this. Love isn't transactional. What you say Ian is cruel about ,TJ has done worse. Ian mentioning something TJ did do (keeping the scar, breaking his leg) is for some reason cruel. Ian regretting his words and running after TJ only to be stop by Jo so apparently people consider that scene as TJ seeing Ian with his new lover and it's cruel. So I want you to think about how Ian feels when he saw TJ with other women. Is that not cruel? Think about the time he was gonna get marry to someone. Is that not cruel at all? When he went running to TJ and gave him a hug. Attended the funeral and told TJ that he would kill their enemies. Is that not him choosing to be there for TJ only to be ghosted afterward? And he thought that TJ didn't need him anymore. Is that not sad enough for you to sympathize with him but instead you take his words in black and white Or does his feelings not matter at all in any situation? Now if you add the stuff that TJ did to keep Ian by his side. Are all those things that TJ did to him not also cruel?TJ has done more harm but you can also they both have done something unintentional and intentional that hurt each other but if you just gonna keep blaming one person that's just annoying.
Let me just say this. Love isn't transactional. What you say Ian is cruel about ,TJ has done worse. Ian mentioning something TJ did do (keeping the scar, breaking his leg) is for some reason cruel. Ian regretting his words and running after TJ only to be stop by Jo so apparently people consider that scene as TJ seeing Ian with his new lover and it's cruel.
So I want you to think about how Ian feels when he saw TJ with other women. Is that not cruel? Think about the time he was gonna get marry to someone. Is that not cruel at all? When he went running to TJ and gave him a hug. Attended the funeral and told TJ that he would kill their enemies. Is that not him choosing to be there for TJ only to be ghosted afterward? And he thought that TJ didn't need him anymore. Is that not sad enough for you to sympathize with him but instead you take his words in black and white Or does his feelings not matter at all in any situation? Now if you add the stuff that TJ did to keep Ian by his side. Are all those things that TJ did to him not also cruel?TJ has done more harm but you can also they both have done something unintentional and intentional that hurt each other but if you just gonna keep blaming one person that's just annoying.