Just talk to him about this, maybe he is doing it unintentionally, sometimes people don't realise it (like me, not because I don't like others but I don't just know it) but once you say it they will correct, if not then ┑(￣Д ￣)┍, but just try mentioning this...
We alr talked abt this a few times already, but he keeps on doing it all over again I just feel like he's invalidating my feeling or something, I just want someone to understand me or listen to my rants☹☹ I open up everytime if there's something wrong, he says he would fix it or he would understand but he would not do it
maybe it's time to face talk him seriously or break up, since he kept doing it ( invalidating your feelings) it might as well be intensional now. Talk is the key or break up, there's more people around you who's willing to listen. Because if he did not change in your first talk, he will not change. It will keep happening unless he put effort in acknowledging his mistakes. I'm not saying "break up already" Talk and ask, " why do you keep repeating it?" "is my feelings invalid?" questions like this, since he's dumb in reading someone's feelings, you must emphasize and provoke him. Say all your feelings, don't let it be pent up, it will turn into anger. Hear his side too and think. And then again if you receive a stupid respond, clock him ig. Cheer up and don't let a boy make u feel down, a true man can never.
I have a bf who's like always clueless or let's just say dumb something like that, we we're chatting and I wanted to tell him what I was feeling that day because that day was so hard for me to handle, I told him "I'm so stressed out, to the point that my hair is falling off" and he just heart reacted my message and go start a new topic, I'm so burned out idk what to do anymore it feels like I'm talking to a wall hahahahah I just want to cry