we need to talk about it

Totoki didnt survive lotm September 25, 2025 4:09 pm

i'm finding the comments here super strange cuz reading them you'd think Jiwon(uke) is some horrible trashy person who's aware of Sunghyun's(seme) feelings but still kept sleeping with others after having 'one night stand' with his 'childhood friend'. But if you actually read the available chapters that doesn't seem to be the case at all. Sunghyun here has "one-sided" feelings and no, Jiwon DOES NOT owe him anything cuz he isn't committed to anyone yet. Calling the uke "whore" or how he has dragged and hurt an "innocent person" as if Sunghyun didn't have any say in the one time he had sex with Jiwon? ಠ_ಠ It's baffling that ya'll are not finding it weird. It's okay to feel bad for ml and I feel the same but Jiwon is not some kind of villain that ya'll are trying to make him up to be lol

If the author take that route and villainize Jiwon in the next chapters then yeah trash talk him all you want then but i don't think now is the time to do so

Responses
    =)) September 25, 2025 4:17 pm

    he took his virginity like it was nothing, and let’s not normalise being a whore pls.

    Totoki didnt survive lotm September 25, 2025 5:00 pm
    he took his virginity like it was nothing, and let’s not normalise being a whore pls. =))

    he took his virginity like it was nothing? their first time together happened out of "curiosity" mind you and we still don't know if Jiwon was virgin at that time or not. It was also Sunghyun who ghosted Jiwon after that and Jiwon saw their first time as just one time thing. so how can you blame him honestly? and no one's normalizing being a whore here hello?? engaging in no strings attached physical relationships doesn't make someone a whore, please try to learn what these degrading terms mean before throwing them around carelessly

    Totoki didnt survive lotm September 25, 2025 5:05 pm
    he took his virginity like it was nothing? their first time together happened out of "curiosity" mind you and we still don't know if Jiwon was virgin at that time or not. It was also Sunghyun who ghosted Jiwon ... Totoki didnt survive lotm

    as i mentioned in my original comment, everything would be different if Sunghyun and Jiwon were committed in a relationship. But that doesn't seem to be the case here so I don't understand the overall degradation. but i WILL hate on Jiwon if he turns out to be an asshole and insensitive later in the story- just clarifying in case someone misinderstands

    =)) September 25, 2025 5:48 pm
    he took his virginity like it was nothing? their first time together happened out of "curiosity" mind you and we still don't know if Jiwon was virgin at that time or not. It was also Sunghyun who ghosted Jiwon ... Totoki didnt survive lotm

    i’m sorry but you’re wrong, we see the uke fuck with two people since hooking up with his friend having no strings attached sex doesn’t make u a hoe i never said that, it’s the fact he seems to jump from one to another in such a short time that’s why i think it’s nasty.

    Ehhh September 25, 2025 6:03 pm

    nah you're right. It's just purity politics and misogyny 2.0 central over here