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YES THIS! SO VALID! Well said btw.
THANK YOU i get so annoyed when all people in comments is complain about dohyeon like ARE WE NOT ACTIVELY WATCHING HIM CHANGE???? FOR THE BETTER???? BECAUSE HE WANTS TO BE BETTER FOR HER????? like that HAS TO COUNT FOR SOMETHING??
I totally agree! I just look at it as he's human but he's changing his ways and becoming a better man for her!
im gonna hold ALL of your hands when i say this... just because he liked her, doesnt mean he has to date her. YES he did in the end, but you must understand that he did that after he matured. yes, he has done some things in his youth, but who hasnt? children are a product of their environment, and a 'broken' household produces a 'broken' kid. he did what he did, as a way of rebelling against his abusive father because that was the only way he felt like that was the only way he could regain autonomy, freedom and the choice to choose what he wants to do. unfortunately, seoha is collateral in dohyeon's struggle for regaining control. yes, he slept around AND IM NOT GONNA USE THE TUTOR EXAMPLE BECAUSE HE WAS LITERALLY A MINOR and his tutor was literally an adult so it was practically non-consensual. you can argue that maybe he was 18 so age of consent, right? whatever, but at that age, you are really just figuring out what you want and what you wanna do. and he's in highschool, he's still an adolescent. he's still in a vulnerable age group. he's susceptible to grooming, and adults who take advantage of adolescents like that. so don't ever use the example of him sleeping with his tutor as evidence for saying he sleeps around. because he was trying to get back at his dad, and the tutor, WHO IS VERY MUCH GROWN, took advantage of him.
i need to remind you guys that we're reading about them IN COLLEGE. they're no longer in high school, which means he's probably changed a great deal. he stopped sleeping around when they started their little 'thing', which counts as a change. it shows that he wants to take responsibility. you cannot keep holding him against his past. people change, and sometimes, for the better. he seems serious about her now, and he seems like he wants to better himself FOR HER, so i dont get why people are so hung up over the fact that he was sleeping around.
"blah blah blah hE liKeD hEr he wOulDnt hAVe sLePt aRouNd iF he liKeD her" what in the purity culture? listen, not everyone wants to save themselves for marriage and that doesn't make them any less. dont hold your own expectations to others, because not everyone is the same.