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Me again with the bad memory and worst description of what I remember

I think I'm looking for the same series?
I'm trying to re read this series where the FMC visits a party and she's snubbed by the host, only the maid is greeting her. She takes more of it because she's supposed to be the highest ranking woman in high society and shouldn't be treated like this.
There's an older woman with lower higher hierarchy arriving later than her, as if saying she's the highest ranking woman, she isn't.


Time travel? She courts her husband all her again, near the end of the series, he gifts her flowers, her favorite, and he only knows it's her favorite in the first life.

I think these are the same series... If not help me find the titles