I totally understand the fl being weirded out of her husband, she knew that he's obsessed with her but then act like he's not. So if I were her, I'd be starting to get crazy, cause like, yeah be crazy about me be obsessed, why would you need to do those things to me if I'm widely open in this marriage. Girl just tell him that it is fine to be open and be expressive, because the more that you'll let him be like that, the more that he'll keep secrets just to stay clean in front of you.
I totally understand the fl being weirded out of her husband, she knew that he's obsessed with her but then act like he's not. So if I were her, I'd be starting to get crazy, cause like, yeah be crazy about me be obsessed, why would you need to do those things to me if I'm widely open in this marriage. Girl just tell him that it is fine to be open and be expressive, because the more that you'll let him be like that, the more that he'll keep secrets just to stay clean in front of you.