Look I'm not one to kink shame because yes I know there ARE people out there who get turned on by being treated with violence but I can't help thinking that the bottom is using BDSM as a way to respond to some sort of trauma? Like how do we know that some nasty shit hasn't happened to him in the past and now he has hypersexuality with masochistic tendencies?
Also i just feel so bad for the top, I can't imagine how unpleasant it must feel to do that to someone you like and then pretend to enjoy it
Look I'm not one to kink shame because yes I know there ARE people out there who get turned on by being treated with violence but I can't help thinking that the bottom is using BDSM as a way to respond to some sort of trauma? Like how do we know that some nasty shit hasn't happened to him in the past and now he has hypersexuality with masochistic tendencies?
Also i just feel so bad for the top, I can't imagine how unpleasant it must feel to do that to someone you like and then pretend to enjoy it