remember y'all, mental illness is an explanation, not a justification. being with someone like yeonwoo is fucking exhausting. it's either you uproot your life that is j coming together, or you have to feel like the cause for your partner missing out on his family, his future, & what if his mental health declines so badly despite staying in korea together cuz his "luck is running out"? & the audacity to be upset when you see your partner "on the phone all day" after they said they'll think about moving to usa after listing out a BUNCH of reasons why they can't? & to be so insistent on only having it his way & not bothering to help search alternatives too, are you kidding me? get a fucking psychiatrist, get on meds, go to a therapist, & then deal with all of this, omg
remember y'all, mental illness is an explanation, not a justification. being with someone like yeonwoo is fucking exhausting. it's either you uproot your life that is j coming together, or you have to feel like the cause for your partner missing out on his family, his future, & what if his mental health declines so badly despite staying in korea together cuz his "luck is running out"? & the audacity to be upset when you see your partner "on the phone all day" after they said they'll think about moving to usa after listing out a BUNCH of reasons why they can't? & to be so insistent on only having it his way & not bothering to help search alternatives too, are you kidding me? get a fucking psychiatrist, get on meds, go to a therapist, & then deal with all of this, omg