The sister was too realistic, by far the most annoying to me. Just super inconsiderate and selfish 24/7. She stayed longer than I hoped she would in the story lmao.
For blue haired dude, I didn’t feel bad for him. Mainly cause the situation isn’t just a normal friend getting ghosted. It was wrong for gichan to even introduce his fwb to hyobin. And it was especially wrong that he only said “he’s just a friend” when that isn’t the extent of how far he went with him. And let’s just say it’s a GIVEN that if you start a friends with benefits relationship with someone, that your “friendship” or contact would someday be cut off. Because there’s no way most partners would be comfy with the fwb staying connected. Blue hair should’ve known that and understood that from their relationship alone. I also wanna add how weird it was that when he was introduced to hyobin and as Vivian and hyobin were leaving, blue hair asked for a kiss ad hyobin was right there?? Blue hair KNOWS the history and context, but did that?? Anyways he’ll be fine, it’s clear he can make friends with anyone with how unbothered he is.
Hyobin: for feeling upset about gichan having with a fwb relationship with blue hair. I think it’s valid. Personally if a friend says they’ve been in love with me for years, we mutually start getting together, and then later I find out they’ve still been in contact with their fuck buddy, I’d be upset. Now if it’s just about how Gichan slept with someone else before, I would think of it like I’d rather have my friend tell me they just recently started to like me in that way and I wouldn’t be bothered. But saying it like you’ve loved me all these years kinda makes me think your feelings were very strong, only to water those feelings down by the hook ups.
Gichan: now I’m not saying gichan was wrong for having relations with others. It’s also valid to try stuff with others and he’s not obligated to hold onto this crush which he thought had no future of being true. The only flaw he had was making his crush and his fwb meet each other and not tell his crush the full context of his relationship with his fwb. - - - - - Oh yeah to further elaborate on that thing about feeling bothered by your childhood friend confessing they loved you for years only to find out they’ve had constant hook ups: it’s because it reminds me of this toxic ML from a straight manga I read. He gaslit the FL. Basically they reunited and he confessed saying he’s always loved her all this time and has been waiting to be with her. But then she finds out he’s been having sex with multiple girls before her and she talks to him about it. Only for him to be upset and say something like “this and that are other matters. I have my needs. And I also can’t take back what I’ve done.” Then proceeds to just persuade her to move on from it.
I’m gonna leave my takes on some characters:
The sister was too realistic, by far the most annoying to me. Just super inconsiderate and selfish 24/7. She stayed longer than I hoped she would in the story lmao.
For blue haired dude, I didn’t feel bad for him. Mainly cause the situation isn’t just a normal friend getting ghosted. It was wrong for gichan to even introduce his fwb to hyobin. And it was especially wrong that he only said “he’s just a friend” when that isn’t the extent of how far he went with him. And let’s just say it’s a GIVEN that if you start a friends with benefits relationship with someone, that your “friendship” or contact would someday be cut off. Because there’s no way most partners would be comfy with the fwb staying connected. Blue hair should’ve known that and understood that from their relationship alone. I also wanna add how weird it was that when he was introduced to hyobin and as Vivian and hyobin were leaving, blue hair asked for a kiss ad hyobin was right there?? Blue hair KNOWS the history and context, but did that?? Anyways he’ll be fine, it’s clear he can make friends with anyone with how unbothered he is.
Hyobin: for feeling upset about gichan having with a fwb relationship with blue hair. I think it’s valid. Personally if a friend says they’ve been in love with me for years, we mutually start getting together, and then later I find out they’ve still been in contact with their fuck buddy, I’d be upset. Now if it’s just about how Gichan slept with someone else before, I would think of it like I’d rather have my friend tell me they just recently started to like me in that way and I wouldn’t be bothered. But saying it like you’ve loved me all these years kinda makes me think your feelings were very strong, only to water those feelings down by the hook ups.
Gichan: now I’m not saying gichan was wrong for having relations with others. It’s also valid to try stuff with others and he’s not obligated to hold onto this crush which he thought had no future of being true. The only flaw he had was making his crush and his fwb meet each other and not tell his crush the full context of his relationship with his fwb.
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Oh yeah to further elaborate on that thing about feeling bothered by your childhood friend confessing they loved you for years only to find out they’ve had constant hook ups: it’s because it reminds me of this toxic ML from a straight manga I read. He gaslit the FL. Basically they reunited and he confessed saying he’s always loved her all this time and has been waiting to be with her. But then she finds out he’s been having sex with multiple girls before her and she talks to him about it. Only for him to be upset and say something like “this and that are other matters. I have my needs. And I also can’t take back what I’ve done.” Then proceeds to just persuade her to move on from it.