A lot of people still projecting what they wanted instead of focusing HOW actually the characters were being build in the story. You think it make sense that Han Juwon said 'how to make it feel better' in this argument? Saying it many times won't fix what's being internalized by Lee Seodan. He already communicated this with him on the beach. The issue here is Lee Seodan's self esteem and his insecurity. That's why he said that Lee Seodan needs to start learning to push him away. His tendencies for non vanilla sex will always be there. Han Juwon understands it very well that he's the type of person who will let him do things that he wants. It's also the reason why Lee Seodan started mentioning about his marriage etc. It was emphasized even more with his monologues.
People went off about a lot of things in the manhwa but still don't understand why both character did what they did. Granted they both are not always white and black. There are moments where we dislike things about them. But as someone who read this story from both characters' POVs I really don't understand what's so difficult to grasp here.
I also just want to add, Han Juwon's way of loving Lee Seodan is more of tough love. At times he will seen like he has no tact or inconsiderate towards Lee Seodan. But if he feeds on Lee Seodan's insecurity (like listening what he wants to hear), Lee Seodan will never learn to prioritize himself first. So if Lee Seodan choose to be in bdsm FOR him, Han Juwon will follow. Not because he wanted it (maybe part of it), but it's because if he doesn't learn what he chooses for himself is equally important he will not know what he truly wants for himself in the relationship. This will be brought up again in future chapters.
A lot of people still projecting what they wanted instead of focusing HOW actually the characters were being build in the story. You think it make sense that Han Juwon said 'how to make it feel better' in this argument? Saying it many times won't fix what's being internalized by Lee Seodan. He already communicated this with him on the beach. The issue here is Lee Seodan's self esteem and his insecurity. That's why he said that Lee Seodan needs to start learning to push him away. His tendencies for non vanilla sex will always be there. Han Juwon understands it very well that he's the type of person who will let him do things that he wants. It's also the reason why Lee Seodan started mentioning about his marriage etc. It was emphasized even more with his monologues.
People went off about a lot of things in the manhwa but still don't understand why both character did what they did. Granted they both are not always white and black. There are moments where we dislike things about them. But as someone who read this story from both characters' POVs I really don't understand what's so difficult to grasp here.
I also just want to add, Han Juwon's way of loving Lee Seodan is more of tough love. At times he will seen like he has no tact or inconsiderate towards Lee Seodan. But if he feeds on Lee Seodan's insecurity (like listening what he wants to hear), Lee Seodan will never learn to prioritize himself first. So if Lee Seodan choose to be in bdsm FOR him, Han Juwon will follow. Not because he wanted it (maybe part of it), but it's because if he doesn't learn what he chooses for himself is equally important he will not know what he truly wants for himself in the relationship. This will be brought up again in future chapters.