''Wanting my husband to stay loyal to me was nothing but selfishness'' good? He chose to marry you? and chased after you? expecting loyalty from him was a basic human emotion? Were you supposed to clap and braid his whore's hair like a spare sex partner? in your own marriage?
The male leads could be as selfish as they want, they could rape MC, use his life as a pawn in politics, assault him in his sleep, treat him as an afterthought in their own marriage but could be forgiven with literally zero thought meanwhile MC is treated like the worst most selfish monster for expecting basic human respect from them.
Having boundaries and wanting basic human respect makes you selfish everybody, you should just let people use you and forgive them immediately.
I genuinely hate how MCs are always expected to be so selfless and self sacrificing to the point where they'll get blasted for wanting the most basic things, but MLs will be forgiven for absolutely everything just because they're handsome.
If yellow was ugly, he would've been a nameless extra who gets executed for assaulting MC in his sleep.
If black was ugly, this would've been a revenge story where the ugly bastard ex lover regrets treating MC badly.
If red was ugly, he would be a villain who destroys MC's life for his politics.
Yet MC is the only one who even questions and feels bad about himself for wanting the most minimal things from them, like for example wanting loyalty from the man who married him.
I can't believe the moral of this manga is literally ''if your life sucks, just kill yourself and ask for a better life'' like??
Can you imagine a version of BNHA where deku really does kill himself, only to get reborn with strong powers and the story ending with MC apologizing for being born as a mistake?