
Manhwas where a male lead/ex-husband sa'ed/raped the female lead but she doesn't forgive him and falls for the actual male lead(/s):
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/moral_less_scandal/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/my_second_husband_desperate_and_depressed/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kill_my_husband/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/crimson_karma/ (minor plot point, one of the mls is the reincarnation of her previous life's lover who used to rape her)
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/loveless_heroine/ (not really an ex but still a male lead courting her)

Oh and there's also this https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/kill_the_villainess/: one of the male leads (if you can even consider him that) tries to rape her and she actually kills him in self-defence (they bring him back but still)
You know those stories where the girl forgives or forgets that the ML SA'd her, just because of the plot convenience of "Love" and because the ML is too attractive (stockholmes syndrome bullshit). Give me the opposite of that, where FL actually feels the reality effects of being SA'd or forced, where she does revenge on the fucker or just recognizes that he's just a grapist and not someone to feel pity for even if he does have a tragic backstory. And she doesn't choose him as the ML (or anyone at all??)
Anything similar is appreciated :) just kept reading plots where the FL is too forgiving towards these types of bastards, and now I'm a bit pissed.