read the novel & ngl y’all… i completely understand why the father hates the fl. he didn’t cheat he was taken advantage by the fl’s mom. i’m not saying she should have been abused by him but giving his trauma i can see why he despises her. imagine having a child with your abuser… chills. that can be unpleasant for a lot of people including me. either way, i still don’t like him. i can empathize with him victim to victim but at the end of the day she didn’t ask to be born. it’s a fucked up situation though. his disgust with her is justified but the abuse she endured isn’t. just because he went through something traumatic doesn’t give him the green light to abuse someone else. it’s not an excuse at all.
read the novel & ngl y’all… i completely understand why the father hates the fl. he didn’t cheat he was taken advantage by the fl’s mom. i’m not saying she should have been abused by him but giving his trauma i can see why he despises her. imagine having a child with your abuser… chills. that can be unpleasant for a lot of people including me. either way, i still don’t like him. i can empathize with him victim to victim but at the end of the day she didn’t ask to be born. it’s a fucked up situation though. his disgust with her is justified but the abuse she endured isn’t. just because he went through something traumatic doesn’t give him the green light to abuse someone else. it’s not an excuse at all.