It always pisses me off when people tell victims to forgive their parents for the things they've done or they will "regret" it when they die. It's really not their place at all to say shit about it, sometimes your love and affection for people fade away after continuous pain and suffering, just because they're family doesn't mean they should be forgiven either... Just because you feel affection for them or because you would forgive your own loving parents doesn't me all of us would and should when they were the cause of your trauma and present problems... only the victim can decide when, how and if they can forgive. fuck that uncle
It always pisses me off when people tell victims to forgive their parents for the things they've done or they will "regret" it when they die. It's really not their place at all to say shit about it, sometimes your love and affection for people fade away after continuous pain and suffering, just because they're family doesn't mean they should be forgiven either... Just because you feel affection for them or because you would forgive your own loving parents doesn't me all of us would and should when they were the cause of your trauma and present problems... only the victim can decide when, how and if they can forgive. fuck that uncle