this is actually a really realistic and accurate depiction of relationships (especially their monologues imo). i've been jihoon and i've been soojoong. i've been the winner i've been the loser. while, yes, i do think soojoong deserves so much better, but the fearful avoidant in me also can't help but understand jihoon at times. i am an avoidant, i've also been with other avoidants. its complicated. the push and pull, the second guessing, the leaving and the silence. its never linear, its complicated, its real life.
this is actually a really realistic and accurate depiction of relationships (especially their monologues imo). i've been jihoon and i've been soojoong. i've been the winner i've been the loser. while, yes, i do think soojoong deserves so much better, but the fearful avoidant in me also can't help but understand jihoon at times. i am an avoidant, i've also been with other avoidants. its complicated. the push and pull, the second guessing, the leaving and the silence. its never linear, its complicated, its real life.