I am ftm trans. I also thought it was not a red flag at the start of our relationship. After a while he would talk to me about how he dislikes female and how he felt disgusted by them. We fought a lot whenever I told him it’s not okay to say that and that he’s self projection his self hatred towards innocent women.
These ppl piss me off cause they don’t even know half the things I went through because of him and still blaming me for their lack of reading comprehension skills. I’m glad I’ve almost healed from all those shit cause my two years ago me would be very much triggered by these comments and all these comments sounded like his manipulations lol

My ex was intersex and he hated being called he’s half female (which is lowkey red flag) this makes me lowkey miss him