These BL authors got it...

DMcKen October 19, 2025 6:54 am

I swear these authors always find a way to sprinkle unhealthy dynamics and abuser tactics into stories and frame them as cute behaviour.

1. Faking illness and using emotional black mail to stop your partner from seeing friends.
2. Not allowing your partner to go places without you.
3. Treating every person as a potential threat to your relationship (this is an isolation tactic as the partner avoids people to appease/keep the peace)
4. Tagging along uninvited to every outing your partner has.
5. Crying or throwing a fit/tantrum to stop your partner from doing things/going places

All this shit is unhealthy and can easily be used to slowly trap someone in an abusive relation.
However, this author is framing it like it's just slightly annoying but adorable behaviour.
No kink shaming here but genuinely when did this become the standard?

Responses
    Elurian October 19, 2025 7:42 am

    Ikr what is wrong with them?? At this point i will stop reading these here and pay for them(i dont have money) just so these authors could afford a psychiatrist.