The first thing that came to mind was a manga I read a long time ago, so I went looking for it for half an hour…and then I found out it’s called Rebirth…and I just realized that’s what you were describing and that you were asking for manga similar to that.
I need to sleep man
I haven't read these 2 yet but planned to, and from the spoilers they both seem to have the same kind of premise (seme being abusive and such, them reincarnating, uke avoiding him and seme regretting):
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/raw_novel/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/keeper_of_the_pearl/ (here I don't think either remembers at the beginning)
Again, this is solely based on spoilers I read
Does anyone have bl recommendations for comics like rebirth? Where the couple ends up going back in time and one decides to change the relationship while the other usually the hke tries to avoid him altogether? Really specific i know but u really like the story line