a. the baby being squished between both their chests is so funny to me b. I boooooo at ove...

BubblegumB!tch October 22, 2025 4:44 am

a. the baby being squished between both their chests is so funny to me
b. I boooooo at overdone brain tumour choice BOOOOOOO
Also, I'm so sorry but I can't help but think that maybe she wouldn't have died! If she was chose to move to the states with her bf than no house fire that shes in!!!!
Maybe its because I spent my whole childhood being a carer for my grandparents but goddamn man, yeah its really fucking sad but the moments where the person learns to walk again or gets new hearing aids or just silly moments are so damn precious!
I KNOW ITS SAD
but I also can't help but feel angry for her, she deserved to have that choice instead of him selfishly abandoning her because he was scared she wouln't love him anymore if he was disabled or because he thought she wouldn't get over him dying??
I continue to wonder why think people think dying is worse than abandonment! Even when theres unspoken questions, the comfort of loving someone who is dead and saying goodbye to them is SO MUCH easier kind of grief than losing the person you've fallen in love and had a child with because they ran away from you kind of grief OH MY GOD

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    ruri October 22, 2025 5:46 am

    He left her not because of all the reasons you said. He left her because he don't want her to be miserable, not to mention all the uncertainty around his recovery IF he survived the surgery. I'm not saying he's right for doing that nor am i saying he's wrong for doing that. This kind of decision, there's nothing wrong or right to say. We outsiders can only understand the reasons.