Why do people call males who identify as men and give birth in mpreg stories 'mother'? The...

Herein_jing October 23, 2025 7:30 am

Why do people call males who identify as men and give birth in mpreg stories 'mother'? They're not and that's fine because not every family should have a father and a mother.
Giving birth doesn't equate being a mother. It pisses me.

Responses
    hyvnsoo October 23, 2025 8:08 am

    whats your definition of mother then, goofball?

    a hoes pot of cuteness October 23, 2025 8:19 am
    whats your definition of mother then, goofball? hyvnsoo

    lmao you're funny

    suqaar October 23, 2025 8:19 am

    r u ok

    Herein_jing October 23, 2025 8:26 am
    whats your definition of mother then, goofball? hyvnsoo

    Someone who identifies as a woman having a child?

    Herein_jing October 23, 2025 8:26 am
    r u ok suqaar

    Very much so.

    Anonymous_ October 23, 2025 8:32 am

    For me a mother is the homemaker and the light of the house while a father is a pillar , what I meant is that if in straight couple if the father is the homemaker then he is categorized as the "mother" and the mother as the "father" ... It's not about who gave birth ... ..

    Herein_jing October 23, 2025 8:37 am
    For me a mother is the homemaker and the light of the house while a father is a pillar , what I meant is that if in straight couple if the father is the homemaker then he is categorized as the "mother" and the ... Anonymous_

    Wouldn't it be considered stereotyping roles?

    amrs October 23, 2025 8:44 am
    For me a mother is the homemaker and the light of the house while a father is a pillar , what I meant is that if in straight couple if the father is the homemaker then he is categorized as the "mother" and the ... Anonymous_

    are househusbands (in a straight couple) mothers then

    Nanamikentowife October 23, 2025 8:47 am
    Someone who identifies as a woman having a child? Herein_jing

    Are we deadass now?? Can i identify as a chair so you fucker can sit on my face while i lick you and then give birth to your child to become a mommy

    amrs October 23, 2025 8:47 am

    it just really does boil down to how the omega is basically treated as just a woman with a dick. also, bc of heteronormativity even in gay couples (notice how bottoms often have feminine features?)

    Herein_jing October 23, 2025 8:53 am
    it just really does boil down to how the omega is basically treated as just a woman with a dick. also, bc of heteronormativity even in gay couples (notice how bottoms often have feminine features?) amrs

    Thank you for a sensible response! I don't know why they're so mad about me questioning the heteronormativity in Omegaverse.

    Herein_jing October 23, 2025 8:53 am
    Are we deadass now?? Can i identify as a chair so you fucker can sit on my face while i lick you and then give birth to your child to become a mommy Nanamikentowife

    Do it then. Nobody is fucking stopping you from identifying as a chair and I'll treat you like one too.

    Nanamikentowife October 23, 2025 8:54 am
    Do it then. Nobody is fucking stopping you from identifying as a chair and I'll treat you like one too. Herein_jing

    Yup american

    Anonymous_ October 23, 2025 8:56 am
    Wouldn't it be considered stereotyping roles? Herein_jing

    Wait , ur right

    Anonymous_ October 23, 2025 8:59 am
    Wait , ur right Anonymous_

    I guess it would just go down to how they want to be called?

    hyvnsoo October 23, 2025 9:38 am
    I guess it would just go down to how they want to be called? Anonymous_

    literally, it's not that deep. why are we trying to have a #wokemoment on mangago. get a grip. go read ur yaoi and sit down grandma. heteronormity in bl is completely irrelevant to whatever it is ur trying to say. being a mother doesnt mean you have to be a woman. some trans people with kids are ok with being called whatever. it all boils down to the individual.

    Herein_jing October 23, 2025 10:41 am
    literally, it's not that deep. why are we trying to have a #wokemoment on mangago. get a grip. go read ur yaoi and sit down grandma. heteronormity in bl is completely irrelevant to whatever it is ur trying to s... hyvnsoo

    But these are fictional characters. I'm talking about fictional characters because who in this world is an omega? #wokemoment is when you call out these things like ok enjoy your heteronormative bls.

    hyvnsoo October 23, 2025 2:37 pm
    But these are fictional characters. I'm talking about fictional characters because who in this world is an omega? #wokemoment is when you call out these things like ok enjoy your heteronormative bls. Herein_jing

    ur throwing around the word heteronormative just for fun

    amrs October 23, 2025 4:27 pm
    ur throwing around the word heteronormative just for fun hyvnsoo

    why are you so pressed? it's not having a #wokemoment, it's just pointing out that it's weird for authors to impose feminine labels on characters that IDENTIFY as men. if you're going to argue that it boils down to what they want to be called---none of these characters explicitly (or even implicitly) mentioned wanting to be called "mother". they were following the logic of the setting that the AUTHOR decided on. take the hyesung from love is an illusion for example, aside from being labeled a mother, he was literally called an auntie. which, didnt make sense??

    also please lay off the hostility, nobody's trying to attack you. op is literally just trying to have a conversation??? which is also important to have bc what we read DOES affect how we behave in real life. reading stuff that depicts gay relationships in a heteronormative light also affects how we look at actual gay men. i mean, have you seen people online who sees two men and then start publicly speculating about who is the bottom and who is the top? we need to have conversations like this lol.

    amrs October 23, 2025 4:30 pm
    Thank you for a sensible response! I don't know why they're so mad about me questioning the heteronormativity in Omegaverse. Herein_jing

    fr. i'm so confused at these replies.