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i thought my father abandoned me as well and then too learned that wasnt the cas. obviously i can only speak on my situation but even if this isnt something that can be forgotten, with understanding it can be forgiven. i also think its easier to forgive your parents since theyre, you know, your parents.

He had a good reason but ys awful of him to just leave and not like at least send a letter
I understand the reasons but having a good reason won't erase the years our ml thought his dad abandoned him and his mother