Even as "closure" it's just shitty and nonsensical to do lol it's not your crush's responsability to give you closure
I think it's more about "getting the weight off your shoulders" type shi. It's more about the "confesser" rather then the crush...ya know
No I know that lol it's still shitty, it's your burden, not anybody else's and it's just selfish to go burden someone else with it just so YOU can have closure. Especially if you know that person has a lover.
thats fair too, but i believe there are circumstances where it is not exactly shitty
my bad, i hit post before i was done typing. as i was saying, i agree with what you said, in cases where people catch feelings after knowing they are in a relationship, because then it is js wrong and a very homewrecker feeling thing
the whole confession thing despite them being in a relationship only makes sense when they want to use it as a closure and move on, not if they expect a miracle to happen tf. anyways, bet hes js gon talk about how he was badmouthing him