I won't say valid as ignorance is a Choice if you are planning to try any new type of seggual activity its important to be informed about what you plan to try. Doe i say the Uke partly enables it but den again Uke is also inexperienced himself ...soo at the end of the day Seme is mainly heavier on the ignorance and chooing to stay ignorant, it seems hes too caught up in himself.
As for the its just a hook up and the plan is to not fall in love yea i get what u meannn...if it was a personal experience i would later be attcked with emotions of such anger and resentment buildup from being in a sense a victim that it will eventually get in the way of the relationship.
I usually hate seme’s if they piss me off from the get go, but dang this seme, everything he does is somewhat valid cuz like bro was straight, made it very clear that he just wanted a hook-up. Continues to do so because uke said he wasn’t interested in him. So he is oblivious of ukes feelings that’s why i can’t exactly hate HATE him. Ugh i know he’s already slowly falling in love with uke and that they’re obv gonna get together but i also know there’s gonna be a denial stage where they get broken somewhat and I’m not ready for that, my poor baby Hajoon *bawls* ┗( T﹏T )┛