Gadamn, the ex bf is a toxic mf. Back when I was younger I dated someone like that. He'd never tell me directly on how I should dress or act... but he would hint and what he expects of me. Every time I acted 'out of line', he'd say things like:
"Look at that girl, she's wearing a nice dress. Girls should wear dresses and skirts." "Ugh, my friends girlfriends always butt into conversations, girls should keep quiet when the men are talking" "Girls should have long hair, don't know why they want to cut their hair short to look like dudes" "Heh, you're fat like me"
....WHAT A D-BAG. He also tried to rush into marriage when he felt like he was losing control over me. Girls, if you ever come across people like this... RUN
Gadamn, the ex bf is a toxic mf.
Back when I was younger I dated someone like that. He'd never tell me directly on how I should dress or act... but he would hint and what he expects of me. Every time I acted 'out of line', he'd say things like:
"Look at that girl, she's wearing a nice dress. Girls should wear dresses and skirts."
"Ugh, my friends girlfriends always butt into conversations, girls should keep quiet when the men are talking"
"Girls should have long hair, don't know why they want to cut their hair short to look like dudes"
"Heh, you're fat like me"
....WHAT A D-BAG.
He also tried to rush into marriage when he felt like he was losing control over me.
Girls, if you ever come across people like this... RUN