Man if there’s one thing I love about Dohu, is that he doesn’t give up on his man he admitted his wrong doings, he apologized, and now he’s showing juheon that he’s seeking him out now.
I just hope Dohu finds out about his family issues and the threats, I think this is the main reason juheon is not budging when it comes to giving dohu a chance. Juheon has a lot of faults too, in the sense of not being honest with his feelings. I think he should tell Dohu what’s going on, especially since it involves Dohu because that’s who the aunt threatened.
Also, relating to a character and appreciating their development doesn’t make you a glazer. You’re absolutely right, I really like how the manga is handling Dohu’s growth as a character.
And I like how neither of the characters are perfect.
I relate to dohu a lot.....bcz I'm difficult, emotions don't register to me until pretty late. I am always confused as to what to do whenever I have conflicts with ppl. Its also that I can't express myself openly ever. I feel emotions and immediately start shoving them away thinking "ah I can't do anything abt this anymore" "no use crying over spilled milk" "I just have to accept this" and move on. I do not even let myself feel the emotions properly and I just put them away and move on. Yeah I do feel hurt, regret, etc etc. But I genuinely do not think I do it the way normal ppl do. And I wasn't even aware of it until very recently a fairly new friend of mine walked me through how i act and deal with feelings. They helped me a lot. So now im more observant and aware and try to fix some of it.
I think that I feel emotions but in reality i don't feel them as intensely as I should. I've been that way my whole life, grew up like that. Nobody thinks that sth is wrong or different with me but they sure seem to believe that im insensitive, egoistic, rude and selfish. Just how dohu has been seen by others growing up, being told he's rude. He knows his mind works differently compared to others but its not sth that can be fixed in a day or sth. I have never had any opportunity to seek professional help abt this but someday i will. Bcz being like this is suffocating.
Everytime dohu seemed like he was too blunt or that he didn't realize his mistake.....he's not really the same as other ppl, he's different.....its not that he doesn't get it or that he's doing it on purpose. This story is well written and his character growth is really good. After all that he knows what he wants now, he knows he loves juheon. And has made up his mind to not let him go this time. I don't think people will ever understand how difficult it is for people like dohu, ppl like me who struggle with navigating our own emotions, let alone others. He is doing his best is all I'll say. Im not a dohu glazer however I've never had a fictional character who was so similar to me.